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Interview with Irene Boss

by

Madame Nicole

MADAME NICOLE

 
 
Can you describe exactly what a dominatrix is?
The term "Dominatrix" has caused much confusion in the professional D/s community. It seems that one can be too professional, but never lifestyle enough. My definition of the word Domina means lifestyle, but a lot of lifestyle Dominas call themselves Mistresses. Our vocabulary to describe such things is vast, and these words mean different things to everyone who uses them. A Domina may choose to have a submissive address her as ‘Mistress’, ‘Priestess’, ‘Goddess’, ‘my Lady’, or some other epitaph - during a scene. There are women who specialize in providing a fantasy service where ‘domination upon request’ is provided - a ‘Dominatrix’. There are women who adopt a lifestyle based on the patterns of their Dominant professions and enjoy the scene enough to take things to the next level, or they become a scene professional after amassing personal experience training submissives. These are the ‘Dominas’; women who train submissives for their own enjoyment, and also on an hourly basis for tuition or tribute. More tends to be expected of the Domina. These women generally don’t accept scripts, and don’t perform domination upon request. It is more difficult to be a Domina, but more fulfilling in the long run as a lifestyle choice, because a woman defines her own boundaries and can get very good at doing specific things. She feels a sense of accomplishment at developing her own style.

In what city/country are you located? Pittsburgh Pennsylvania - United States

How much do your services cost?

Tribute varies according to scene length and structure. I do a lot of lengthy scenarios, and several other Dominas work for me. This information can be viewed here.

http://www.domboss.com/contact2.htm

What is the range of services you offer?

Disclaimer about videos and appointments at the Compound: Having a professional session here is about entering submissive mindset. This experience is spiritual, cathartic, intellectual, creative, and erotic. We view what We do here as an art form.

You must have experience as a submissive to have a session at the Compound, or you may order videos.

http://www.domboss.com/bossvideos.htm

We don't date or swing.

We are not a 'mommies' for adult babies. (We already have boyfriends and husbands!) We are not looking for personal or live in slaves.

Sexual body worship does not interest us.

Mistress Anastasia and Mistress Morgana do not provide showers, enemas, or piercing. Mistress Morgana does not provide strap on dildo training. submissives Nadine and Bess do not accept showers, enemas, piercing, or dildo training. Submissive Nadine is not available for sessions. Submissive Bess is only available to co-submit alongside another submissive.

There is no topping from the bottom, fencing or scripts (We are Tyrants here!).

Compound policy: All activities here are consensual. you will not be videotaped or photographed unless you ask. Bondage http://www.domboss.com/bossgoth.htm is a main interest here! This can occasionally involve capture.

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Bondage can also be a mind game. Various levels of sensory play will be engaged in. Sensory deprivation can accentuate this. Medical scenarios

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often involve a level of physical helplessness. There is also a Victorian Schoolroom.

http://www.domboss.com/bossclass.htm

Look over the site and see the various theme rooms.

http://www.domboss.com/bossdgn.htm

Extended scenes are preferred in the 3-5 hour range. The shortest time frame is an hour. If the chemistry is right, overnight and weekends are possible. The Compound has a jail cell and guest room.

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Extreme fetish costumes are worn here by the Dominas - appropriate to the type/style of the scene.

Prepare for a session as you would for an important business meeting. Eat frequent small meals throughout the day and avoid excessive caffeine, nicotine, and alcohol. Drink plenty of water. Shower, floss/brush your teeth, and trim your fingernails/toenails. Those engaging in extended play are given opportunities to freshen up. Dress in a comfortable yet professional fashion for your session.

When your first session begins, you will be briefed on the decorum of communication and reminded of your safe word which you will probably never need. Your breathing, facial expressions, and body language will be constantly assessed. You will only need your safe word for psychological purposes. If it is pre-negotiated that you will be gagged and /or hooded, then you will receive a safety signal. you will be taught the basic commands/postures if you are being trained as a slave. submissive spanking enthusiasts, masochists, fetishists, and those who indulge in role play also visit this establishment - so again, there is no example of how you would be interacted with. you will be treated as an individual. There are stow away areas in each playroom for your personal belongings. After your session you will be permitted to use the facilities.

An extended scene requires advance notice. The time to schedule is when you have your travel itinerary.

What kinds of people come to see you?

Mostly bondage enthusiasts, but I also see those who are into corporal and those who have strong fetish tendencies.

Can you describe your 10 weirdest clients?

To me weird can be good -- but sometimes not good. Do You watch David Letterman? How about Tom Greene on MTV (my favorite)?

While reading this I know you will all laugh, but keep in mind that I have evolved a lot as a person in the last 6 years. These were sessions I did when I first began and I was searching for what I wanted in a submissive. I was basically very experimental and I saw many different types of individuals before I honed my craft as a professional Domina. I am now primarily a dedicated bondage enthusiast. My days as a Dominatrix are long over, but they sure do make for some interesting reading material!

;)

The first two are 'fun weird', and then there are 'other types' of weird. I'm pretty strange Myself - so here goes:

1). My Billy had a Star Trek Fetish for "The Gamesters of Triskelion" episode. I liked to whip him to track 22 of the CD, and I often put him in jail and brought him 'nourishment'. The 'providers' bid on him and I make him call Me his 'Drill Thrall', and I trained him as My 'thrall'. He had to do a lot of jumping jacks and situps, and I made him wear a 'training harness' he fashioned out of electrical tape and pantyhose. I wore a silver outfit (which I liked) and I made him wear a collar with a shock devise just like Captain Kirk did in the episode. Mistress Anastasia also liked doing this session with him, and She actually had a special Star Trek outfit that She wore.

2). My Robin had a comic re-enacment fantasy, where he got to play the boy wonder, and Anastasia and I chased him around the studio and we would catch him in a net. He said keywords like "gadzukes" a lot, and "holy domination!". We wore rubber catsuits, and I was usually Cat Woman, and She was Spider Woman. We would catch robin and tell him he's 'wimpy'. To make it more difficult for him, we would make him wear heels with his outfit which also included a cape. Sometimes I would give him 10 minutes to hide, and We would sneak around looking for him. He usually wound up hog tied at the end.

3). A fellow I saw many years ago wanted to masturbate while I said the words "Cream pie! cream pie! I'm going to throw a cream pie in your face..." He always felt very bad about having this fantasy, and I never did understand where it came from. Ha ha ha!

4). An infantalist named Mark (who I no longer see - he gives me the creeps) would bring several suitcases of little girls underwear, and want to stretch them on over his body. I would not allow this, and made him wear 'big girl panties' instead. I was pretty angry at him during his last session, so I tied him down in the crib and sat on him, forcing him to eat baby food (which he hated). I saw him twice and that was enough.

5). Speaking of infantalists there was this fellow named Chip (who I no longer see) who (I kid you not) traveled with his shit in a bag to see the Mistress. He would save the shit in a plastic bag in his garage for weeks, and show up with it, wanting to wear it in a diaper next to his body. He would request that I wear a t-back and heels, and nothing else during the session, and give him 3 hand jobs. I laughed at him, and did the session My way. I substituted warm oatmeal for the shit. I had thrown his shit in the trash, and he actually wanted it back after his session so he could leave with it. He was one sick fuck! A few other Doms had breakdowns after seeing him.

6). A man named Allen who had a very strong coprophiliac fetish. I could not (and would not) 'shit on demand', so I would sell him jars of my shit for 400 about 6 years ago. I stopped doing that, because I found out he was making cookies with the shit and giving them to the people he worked with. He was obviously angry at his boss and the people he worked with. He would also go into Ladies bathrooms and eat used tampons and maxi pads. This last thing he did really takes the cake - he eventually got hepatitis and he wrote me a letter, asking me if I would give Myself an enema and release the contents in his mouth, thereby killing him and ending his pathetic existence. He offered Me all of his money if I would do this. (He was a wealthy man) I called him in, and made him kneel before Me. I told him that it didn't matter if he offered me a million dollars for the session. I would not do it. He started crying, and I told him it was time for him to stop visiting. He passed away less than a year later. Someone probably took his offer, but I didn't want the Karma of that.

I would give you 4 more, but these are pretty extreme. I feel '6 of the best' was enough!

Has anything / anybody ever frightened you?

No, I have had to play 'bouncer' though and throw people out. I am a small Woman with a loud voice. I can be pretty scary!

What do you do in your spare time / what’s fun?

I have 5 large exotic birds. I do 5-6 miles a day. I love films, travel, and reading. Oh - yes, I like to write too!

Do you do this strictly for the money? Why? Or why not?

Years ago I did. Now I just do it for fun. Tribute is still required; otherwise there are those who would not respect My time, and I do spend a fortune on My equipment. Money isn't everything.

Describe the best client you ever had in your life. Why?

The clients I have now (only a few) are fantastic in their own individual ways. They are spiritual people, most of whom have faced their issues, and they are comfortable being around Me. They do not expect Me to be 'on' all the time.

What turns you on? Has a client ever turned you on? What did you do about it??

I get pretty hot and bothered in allot my sessions. I like bondage sluts. Playing affects my sex drive in a very positive and intense way for days afterwards, and My clients say I have the same effects upon them!

The emphasis at The Compound is on training submissives, not on having actual sex with them. The submissives who come here to be trained know that sex is not on the menu, and they don’t ask Us. I am very honest about that in the beginning, and do not mince words about the fact that body worship to Us is proper leg, shoe, foot, and boot worship, polishing and caring for the Mistresses leather and latex costumes, and complementing the Mistress verbally with prayers and poems. I do not become tempted to have sex with my submissives, because I know that it would be a mistake for both of us. I do not mix sex with the training, because what I provide is sexual training. I train men how to control their base desires, and to become someone a woman wants to be around. It is not unusual for me to give lifestyle instructions to my submissives on how to improve their appearances and become more appealing to the opposite sex.

Since My view of body worship is not phalocentric or directly sexual, I would be happy to share My knowledge of foot worship. In the case of the foot fetishist, foot worship is the ultimate reward. The act of reverently worshipping the Mistresses feet with massage, shoe and boot shining, and eventually licking and sucking the Mistresses shoes, boots, stocking covered and bare feet is the ultimate reward to the foot fetishist. I have built whole scenarios around this fetish, and since I own hundreds of pairs of shoes, boots, and stockings, you can well imagine I enjoy this type of play very much.

Foot worship does not need to be specifically applied to the foot fetishist however. Many Mistresses enjoy having their feet or boots kissed, upon their submissives arrival (with Their direction and permission, of course). Foot worship can therefor be used as a greeting.

Foot worship can also be used as a humiliation. The slave may be trampled or kicked (though not dangerously so) in a show of the Mistresses physical strength. The slave may be ‘forced’ to lick the Mistresses dirty feet, shoes or boots. This can be quite humbling to a slave who is having trouble with session etiquette. Foot worship in this way can be used as a punishment.

My style of domination is about emotional connection, psychological journeys, and about bondage, corporeal training, medical procedures, and role play. While these activities may (or may not) stimulate sexual feelings, they are not sex.

What turns me on is this: the knowledge that I’m playing with someone who trusts Me so much (regardless of the activities) to push them as far as I want to. A submissive who wants to watch and hear Me laugh at their predicaments, and know that I am genuinely amused at their struggles, be they physical or mental.

Tell us a little about your background / family.

From my childhood I had sexual feelings towards fabrics, shoes, makeup, and ‘scenes’ involving props, highly charged drama, and personal catharsis. My first orientation was towards women. We would play in groups, doing dress up, spanking and restriction games. All of my childhood games before this had also included bondage, humiliation, and some form of psychological head space(i.e. entering role) Favorites were ‘mean teacher’ and ‘guard’. I discovered sexually oriented paraphernalia in the home I grew up in. A female relatives passed away during this time and left large trunks of odd high-heeled shoes and stockings. I would gleefully wear these to school with a lot of makeup and attract all kinds of negative attention-which I enjoyed! So you see, very early on I was also an exhibitionist. I have an excellent insight into the cross-dresser and those who like to be humiliated - especially in public. The world of theater interested me in my mid teens, and for the next four years I had finally found an outlet for all of my peculiar energies that could now be considered socially acceptable. On a personal note - behind closed doors I began doing ‘scenes’ with the man I was dating. Later I went on to college where I studied theater, art and psychology.

What is your favorite equipment? What do you like to do with it?

Lately, I’ve been administering lots of electrical torture. I have recently acquired many new pieces, and have been experimenting on everyone from my sissy girls to my bondage enthusiasts and corporal submissives. I get a new electrical devise every month or so.

My five most favorite B&D techniques.

1). Mummification/Encasement rubber bondage with stimulus of cbt and nipple play

2). Good old fashioned rope bondage (I enjoy doing this for hours!).

3). Medical bondage for clinic games; i.e., Straight jackets, potty chairs (An encasement golden shower experience!), Strapping to hospital bed (Which has a motor in it. I force submissives to watch by positioning them by means of the bed in front of a mirror for enemas and catheterization).

4). Heavy severe stockades and pillories for single tailed whipping scenes and floggings.

5). Sit slings with arms and legs restrained for a looser more comfortable experience (great for tickling, fisting, dildo play, and/or electroshock).

Do you like inflicting pain? Why?

Classifying Us as a bunch of 'pain givers' is an attitude is held by people who don’t understand this lifestyle. A Domina is strong, in control, and able to inflict punishments. She is compassionate and truly cares about the physical and emotional condition of her submissives. It’s so important to a successful scene that you understand each submissive’s interests and limits, and then construct the scene along those borders, perhaps ‘pushing the limits’ a bit. You must be aware of your submissive’s emotional and physical state, and use them as a guide to proceed; how far to push, and when to wind down. Dominas who aren't compassionate and consciences can easily give subs training they don’t like, and even actually hurt them. Such people don’t get to play very long in the scene. They soon get a bad reputation and cannot find submissives to play with.

I have to really like a submissive masochist's personality to reward them with a pain session. I administer it with the skill of a surgeon.

How do you choose your clients? How do you know they’re not weirder than you are?

I don't think that it is possible that the ones I have now could be weirder than Me. I like being freakier than they are. I like attracting someone more conservative than Me so I can really rock their world. I have a pretty grueling screening process now, with a lot of check points. If they make it through it all I know they are pretty serious.

Do you ever draw blood?

Occasionally I do piercing. I have a medical room for that with sterile trappings. It must be negotiated first though.

What was your funniest session?

Since I only gave you 6 examples of bizarre clients, I will give you a few more stories here (these are all recent):

1). I took a slave to the park naked under a trench coat once. He was wearing combat boots. He had on vibrating nipple clamps, a vibrating butt plug, and an electric ball shocker. I handcuffed him to the bench, and put the key in his boot, so he knew it was there. Then I stood 30 feet away smoking. I kept shocking him with an electric ball shocker every time someone sat next to him. If they questioned him he had to say "i am not permitted to speak".

2). Mistress Anastasia and I went to pick up a slave at the airport. He wasn't at the gate as We instructed him, so he was made to go into the bathroom and change into a 'punishment outfit' (An insane asylum jumpsuit and underneath that - all of the vibrating/shock equipment on his sexual anatomy). His original clothes went into the suitcase. He was also made to wear a giant foam yellow cowboy hat that had a huge star on it. We chided him and called him 'Tex'. We made him sit on a bench outside of a restaurant (still in the airport) facing away from Us so We could see everyone point and laugh at him while We ate dinner. I kept shocking his balls repeatedly. We then walked him out to the parking lot, put him in a straight jacket, and then hoisted him up into the trunk of a pink corvette (Mistress Anastasia owns a car-lot) and drove him to the Compound for his session. he was supposed to stay for the weekend, but he had a breakdown on day two and had to leave. He wanted to be pushed that far.

3). We picked a slave up at the airport in this big old Buick station wagon and took turns spanking him all the way back to The Compound. he had to call Both of Us "Mom". his scene ended the next morning at 9 am.

I do a lot of extended and overnight scenes. I also like public spectacle. I used to be an artist, so I get really turned on and creative when I play.

Do you ever mistakenly laugh out loud at clients during a session?

No, I prefer to laugh with them!

How do your clients find you? Are you in the phonebook/on the Internet/magazine advertising?

The Internet, and finer magazines.

Do you work alone or with others?

Both, depending on the circumstances.

What is the most satisfying thing about your job?

Choosing what I want to do each and every day. Waking up every day with the knowledge that I have power, and people trust me with their secrets.

What do you envision doing ten years from now?

Film making! I'm pretty dominant, and I think I'd make a good director.

I just want to thank you for this interview, Madame Nicole

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It was great meeting you at OWK

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and You were definitely one of the highlights of My trip!

Sincerely,

Domina Irene Boss

http://www.domboss.com

email:PittsburghBoss@yahoo.com


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